The Wedding Day - Part Three

I don't have Melanie's words to share with all those who were there at heart and in spirit but as soon as I do, I will post. I do have mine available and I add and quote directly, as follows:

"Before jumping right into my vows today, uncharacteristically, there is something I'd like to say. And 'cause this is our day and I have the floor, I'm allowed to do what I want. I will try and keep it brief but I need to set the stage.

Not that this needs to be said, 'cause you all know me too well but this is likely going to take about a half hour 'cause there's a pretty good chance I'm not going to get through this very easily. So if I collapse and anyone needs to use the facilities or go for a smoke, feel free as I try to compose myself.

Not long ago, I wrote Melanie a letter. Trying to put my feelings for her into words. I would like to read a quote from that letter to her at this time. Just 'cause I want to and I can.

And I quote:

'If there is one thing that has come to me from all we've endured, it is my belief that you and I are closer than we ever have been as a result. I can never properly thank you for your being there for me when I needed you most. And, at a time when you were dealing with the knowledge of your most frightening struggle ahead, you thought of me. And in return, as I was relegated to the house, the good news was I could be here for you. To hug you, to hold you, and to provide you some sense of comfort when you needed me most. The most amazing realization for me though all you endure, is that while you have your moments, you never have been down and out for long. The reason? You are a very tough gal with incredible inner strength. Your depth of character overwhelms me. I so admire all that I know in my heart, you have always been, but it took events such as these for me to open my eyes and really appreciate the enormity. Melanie, my girl friend, my only love, my life partner, my soul mate, my wife. You are not only all these things, for now and forever, please know you are also my daily inspiration, my reason for everything, my hero.

Please know that 2012 will be the best year we have ever had together, 'cause of simply that. We will be together.'

"And now, in this context, and by witness of all I hold dear in this life, I offer my renewed vow to you on this day of new beginnings. And I think you know me well enough by now, the promise I make to you this day is steadfast and unwavering, as an oath made and kept is absolutely the measure of a person's character, to the core of their soul.

To my hero, my love, my best friend, my reason for everything, I say to you, you make it so easy for me to be the man I have always dreamed I could be. I love you more than words could ever say. I will always be there for you to hold your hand, to walk with you, to give a hug when you need it most, to love you and cherish you, to never take all we have for granted, and above all, to shut up and listen, and, hopefully, without your having to ask. For today, for tomorrow and for all the precious moments we are so lucky to share together to the end of our days. Promise. Cross my heart. Pinky swear."